28 November, 2013

Our Last Thanksgiving as Smith Family of 2...

Bob and I were sitting eating Cheesy Broccoli soup last night (Tiff if you are reading this, I did save you some) when we realized that this (God willing) could be our LAST Thanksgiving with just the 2 of us.  We've had many more of these moments lately.  As I stood in the doorway of our soon-to-be daughter's room, I looked at Bob and said...I'm READY.   Usually what he says (after many MANY years of me saying this) is "Jen, you just need to be patient", but to my surprise he said "Yep, me too".  We knew when we chose international adoption that it would take approximately 18 plus months after we applied, but that doesn't make the wait any easier.  Our story continues...

DOSSIER (aka ton of paperwork) TO AGENCY (DTA):

On Tuesday, we received our last bit of paperwork authenticated from the Chinese Consulate in Houston.  Woo hoo!  Since March, we have collected 13 different documents.  Each one of these documents had to have the notary stamp certified by OH or FL.  Then after that, they had to go to either NY or Houston to the appropriate Chinese Consulate to be authenticated.  We were 13 for 13!  Each document went through the 1st time (this is where my OCD and organizational obsessions have come in handy).  Hmmmm Gram there goes that #13 again (Grandma D's lucky #...we saw it in my seat that I sat in at the USCIS office in New Orleans).  Beyond these 13 documents, we had to have references, photos, etc.  Basically in the adoption world this Dossier is known as your "paper baby", so handing these documents that we have been quite protective of was a little hard, but a bit of relief that we were moving forward. 

The Dossier is off to Holt (along with our US Processing check).

Adoption Yard Sale:

Thanks to EVERYONE for your wonderful support and donations for our Adoption Yard Sale.  We ended up raising approximately $450, which is sitting in our adoption fund ready to go for when we are matched!  This is HUGE and we can't thank you enough.  We had random strangers offering hugs and stories of encouragement.

One SHOCK for those NFL/Browns' fans is that I learned that I had a celebrity of sorts at my sale.  Someone asked me if I remembered selling a chair at the sale.  I had many things donated to sell and this was one of them.  I did remember this sale because I threw in a stuffed animal.  Here come to find out this lady (who bought other things as well) was TRENT RICHARDSON's GRANDMA!!!!!  Yes, EVERYONE is coming out to HELP bring Baby Smith Home!  Too bad he's not on the team anymore.  I blame it on the Shields' curse of buying shirts with people's names on it...(many trades have happened after buying Cleveland Indian's shirts....Carlos Baerga, Kenny Lofton, Jim Thome, and now I guess that Bob has a Trent Richardson Browns' Shirt that he was destined to be traded).

What's next?:

The Dossier will arrive at Holt (our agency) on Monday.  They will review it and contact us with anything we need to add, change or questions they may have.  IF everything looks good, we may possibly have our Dossier to China (DTC) by Friday the 6th.  The BIG date we have been looking forward to is the LID (Log in Date).  This is when China logs our paperwork into their system.  Basically, this is the last thing to be done before we can get a referral (matched with a child) from any of the multiple ways this happens.  Currently, we could only get a referral with a child that is designated to our agency through their partnerships with orphanages.

Keeping Ourselves Busy:

Bob's been learning new songs on the keyboard.  This pieces range from Beatles, Classical pieces, and Peanuts.  I laugh at the range of genres.  He also has been EXTREMELY busy at work.  He's been working a lot, which has been extremely helpful to pay for different paperwork to be processed, etc.  When Bob puts his mind to something, he achieves it!

I'm busy making earrings and necklaces.   www.etsy.com/shop/OperationChinaAdopt
Also, I continue to share my story about Advocare (if interested, let me know) www.advocare.com/130725429.  Plus we are hoping to put another order in this weekend for our Adoption shirts that I helped design.  I'm just a few short to make an order.  Also, check to the side for a Fondue Fundraiser!

Like our page to follow us on Facebook!  https://www.facebook.com/Operationbringbabysmithhome









Shirts cost $18.50 shipped using paypal or order on etsy for multiple orders (SAVE shipping costs).




 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks again for all the support!  It is truly appreciated!  

Happy Thanksgiving! 

Love, 

Bob, Jen & Baby Smith

10 November, 2013

143 million Orphans--We're Starting with One

i800a Wait:

We are still waiting for the i800a approval from immigration that we are allowed to adopt from China.  Currently the wait for others has been 63-80 days.  We are REALLY hoping to hear something this week, so we can move on with our paperwork.

FUNDRAISING:

This is an extremely costly adventure, but it was a guarantee where other options we had were not.  Bob and I have spent several thousand dollars so far on our Home Study, paperwork (& more paperwork), mailings, passports, USCIS fees, certifications, Adoption classes, etc.  We know that this is what God has called us to do, and we know that this is just part of our journey to save 1 of the 143 million orphans around the world.  We have paid off most of our MAJOR debt in the past year to help us be able to do this.  

If you would like to contribute to our Operation, there are many ways that you can do this.  Spread the word is #1!  We love to hear that others have heard our story and are praying for our journey.  You can also:  Tell people about our Adoption Yard Sale (100% proceeds), think about ordering a t-shirt (40-45% proceeds), share about our Etsy page (50% proceeds/$200 so far), let people know about Advocare (30% proceeds/approximately made $400), or Adopt Together (100%/tax-deductible contribution goes directly to our fund).  

Adoption Yard Sale:

We are super excited that Saturday is our day for our HUGE Yard Sale.  We will take donations up to November 15th!  Our BIGGEST concern right now is making sure people come.  Please share with your friends, church, etc.  We have anything from Video Games to Household items to Clothes.  I will be selling everything VERY cheap. 

Etsy:  

Check us out! We have blankets, earrings, key chains, etc.  I'm always adding more things.

http://etsy.com/shop/OperationChinaAdopt

 

Advocare:

This has been a life style change for Bob and I.  We are so proud of our weight loss, feel great, and have helped SEVERAL others too!  If you want to know more, email me at smithteach05@yahoo.com.  I've lost 20 pounds since I started Advocare July 3rd, 2013.  Since June 2012 when Bob and I started our weight loss journey, I've lost 40 pounds and have went from a size 8/10 to size 2/4!  Bob has lost 55 pounds AND quit smoking July 1, 2013.

Check out my direct site:
https://www.advocare.com/130725429/

 

T-shirt Sales:

As many of you know, we decided on a design for our t-shirts.  We sent out our first order of 25 shirts and made approximately $160 towards our adoption fund!  If you are interested in ordering a shirt with the next order, please email me at smithteach05@yahoo.com or pm me on Facebook.  We hope to place another order next month.

Here they are:


Swoop Shirts ($18 SHIPPED)            Red, Teal, and Gray Swoop Shirts are available in Adults S-3X.

Teal and Gray are available in Youth sizes M-XL.

V-neck shirts ($20 SHIPPED)
Gray available in Adults S-3X.